
As I have mentioned before, one thing that has always impressed me about Harry is his confidence, as he didn’t come across at all nervous for what must have been a very novel experience when meeting Ben. In fact this confidence maybe came across a little too strong at one point, on being asked the standard interview question “Do you have any weaknesses?”, Harry answered with a flat “No.” leaving poor Ben awkwardly having to move on to the next question whilst I stymied some giggles.

They interviewed together for a good 10 minutes before I decided to draw thing to a close, and give Harry some feedback on some points for improvement (there is also a photo of these notes here, for those brave/foolish enough to try and read through my scribbles). My first bit of feedback was the importance of body language, to really try and “fill the room” as you enter (apologies for the corporate jargon) by introducing yourself, giving some eye contact (but not too much that it gets creepy – this interview was on Halloween) and a firm handshake – for those wondering, in one of the photos of my giving feedback to Harry that is me gesturing a nice firm handshake!
Harry had also been subconsciously fiddling with his lanyard for much of the interview, as one of the world’s worst fiddlers (just ask any of my primary school teachers) this is definitely something I could relate to, but I tried to explain to him that if he does need to do something with his hands to try and keep it below the eye-line of the table so as not to cause too much of a distraction to others in the room. (Though one huge advantage for us fidgets in this increasingly globalised/technologised world is that the increasing prevalence of Skype interviews means we can sit on our hands without it looking weird.)
Another takeaway was the importance of examples, as with the weaknesses question I explained that it is extremely rare that interviewers will be looking for a one word answer; but here I think that this is naturally something that will become easier for Harry the more he has interviews and starts experiencing the same questions again and again. And with this, I also emphasised that it is important that each example is relevant to the job being interviewed for and will make you come across more employable. For example on getting a more abstract question on what his favourite biscuit is, Harry started talking about how he always helps his mum with the shopping to get his favourite chocolate biscuits, this was all great to show he has a personality but probably wasn’t too relevant to the question at hand.
